My mother has played a very dominant role in my life throughout my almost 53 years of living. She was my Sunday School teacher when I was 6 years old, and she taught me the Bible. I would sit on her bed when I was a little girl and Momma would begin to teach me things and quote scriptures to prove her point.
I was never an academic powerhouse. I had a hard time hearing something for the first time and remembering it. Repetiti0n and lots of it was the way I finally got it through my thick skull! But, when Momma would quote the Bible to me, it was like my mind became a steel trap. She only had to say it once and I had it forever, even until today, many years later.
There were snippets when Momma would literally mentor me. She was a busy lady because she went to college while I was in school and taught as a public school teacher many years after I was grown. She was involved in various organizations and I didn’t always get ‘focused’ time with her. Like all mothers and people in general, it is hard for us to stay focused and concentrated on one thing for long periods of time. We don’t learn until later in life the ‘things’ really didn’t mean as much as we thought and our attention was wasted. I don’t blame Momma for this because I fell into the same trap with my own children.
When Momma was focused on teaching me life’s lessons from the Bible, it was as though I was a sponge that couldn’t soak in enough! Until this day it is that way. My mother is 76 years old come May and I am anxious for more of these ‘mentoring’ times.
One day recently, Momma and I had to make a couple of trips to Houston, and fortunately my mom began to teach me invaluable things about Jesus! I, yet again, soaked it in and craved more! During Easter, her teaching began to surface in my mind and God began to feed into my spirit in a mighty way. I had new information and I will never lose it! It brought revelation in a way I will use today, and it will bring me great peace in the years to come.
I began to post some of it on Facebook. Soon many shares began to show up and many retweets and favorited tweets on ‘twitter’ came from it. Momma hates modern social media, but little did she know her message was literally going out to thousands! You touch far more for Christ than you even can dream that you do!
I long for my mother to teach me more earnestly from her vast knowledge and wisdom. No greater heritage could she leave me. Nothing more valuable or comforting as the years progress and as long as Christ tarries His coming will I ever be given! Everyone needs a mentor.
People want titles, initials, inventions, and legacies left after they are gone…they all mean squat compared to what you give from God’s mouth to your ear to someone else’s heart! Change your priorities because if these are your priorities you are missing the whole boat! Your significance is not in what YOU accomplish, but what GOD accomplishes through you! Don’t let this be a cliché’ but a reality…please! People need what God has planted inside of you!!
Jesus was a mentor to twelve, and you are expected to be a mentor as well…don’t lose the great reward of something you can never imagine may affect the future of so many.
If God had shown me my future I would have rolled with laughter!! Today, I live in a travel trailer. My husband and I sold our home of 25 years and we are off on a new journey. Where this journey is taking us remains to be seen.
I thought of Ree Drummond, the ‘Pioneer Woman‘. I LOVE her! When I first discovered her, I literally sat up all night and read every word she had written about her adventures with ‘Marlboro Man‘. I felt like a pioneer today and probably would have started a new blog about these new adventures with a title similar, but alas that name has been taken. Maybe I’ll do one called ‘Trailer Travelin’ Momma“. Cute, huh?
I lit a gas stove and lived to tell about it (the last time I got scared and hubby did it for me). I made “Momma’s Award Winning Chili” to go on hot dogs or Frito Pie. Not bad for someone who is in a room where there is a kitchen, booth dining table, and bedroom altogether! I have to admit, I was pretty proud of myself and it was fun.
I am no longer having hot flashes! My menopause seems to be completely cured!! It may be because it is 31 degrees outside and a furnace in a travel trailer isn’t quite like central air and heat. Nevertheless, I am quite comfortable! I am warm on my left side, where the furnace blows, and my right side feels frozen. I suppose that makes me just right down the middle! :)
I look back over my life. It has been a great one! My marriage to hubby has literally been one ‘I Love Lucy‘ episode after the other for 30 years now. We have two fantastic kids that I could not be more proud of. If I just had my high school figure, again my world would almost be perfect!
I never dreamed I could do half the things I have done. I have only been able to do them with God’s help, but I am in awe of the fact He had this planned for me all along. He has fueled my dreams with His word and brought them to pass through faith and trust. He amazes me to this day and I have served Him for 52 years!
I think of God and all the things He has done in my life and it gives me fresh courage for the unknown tomorrows. I know He has my new home and it is better than I can imagine. I know He has a purpose for hubby and me in helping and encouraging others. I think of the scripture where He states we would not have believed it had He told us it is so great! There again is my dream, and He is there building my faith and trust over and over!
This is the one time it is good to look back. Never look back at the negativity, but the mighty things God did when no one else bothered to look your way much less help you. Who could have known what a blessing that was! It made you depend on God, and it showed you He truly NEVER leaves us or forsakes us.
Tomorrow, Momma and I go and look at more houses. In the meantime, learning to squeeze groceries into a plywood ice chest will keep me preoccupied!
God bless you, dear reader! See you soon!
I took notes while I was on the phone with Momma today. This is haphazard but I will explain it the best way I can. Momma cooked steaks for Daddy and herself. Daddy was craving Maw’s ‘stove top’ steak. and her steak on the stove is the best I have ever had, hands down! She has been gone for over ten years and this is one thing I didn’t get to learn before she got sick. There are two steaks. A round steak cooked on top of the stove and a ‘flat iron’ steak cooked in the oven. I am going to give you the directions to the steak cooked in the oven first.
YOU WILL NEED:
Reynolds Wrap Grill and Oven Bags
meat tenderizer (Tex-Joy)
Lawry’s Season All Salt
1/4 cup water
purple onion (optional)
HERE IS WHAT YOU DO:
Season the flat iron steak to taste with the seasoning salt, garlic powder and the meat tenderizer on both sides and rub in well. Make sure you season the sides of the steak, as well. Marinate it for one hour. Put your steak in your grill bag and follow the directions on the package. Add purple onion to the top and cook in the oven on 425 for 20-25 minutes. Enjoy!
Turkeys by the millions have been bought along with cranberry sauce by this time. The holidays have begun and cooking all over the United States is being done at a frenzied pace! Time is short and every family is getting ready to put in place another year of traditions from Aunt Harriet‘s “Green Bean Casserole” to Momma‘s special dressing, or if you are from the north, stuffing!
For the holidays, we go to my mother and dad’s for DAYS of celebrating. The house is full of people! There are thirteen of us and four of those thirteen are children, so it is an energized environment! There is a constant buzz of chatter, laughter, and fun. But, not all people are as blessed as I am during this time. This year many will have nothing, literally nothing to eat for Thanksgiving. Thank God for places like the Salvation Army, and in our area, Golden Corral who feeds people for free. These organizations literally gift our homeless or less fortunate in our community and what a huge thank you I would love to give!
I am not talking about the homeless nor the less financially fortunate in this article. I am talking about those who will literally have no one to spend the holidays with. These are just a few things you can do to make it through a season that could have been unbearably lonely and I hope it helps.
1. Bring the holidays to you! There is a lady in our church. Her children live several hours away and her husband died two years ago. Sister Jones (not her real name) decided since she had no place to go and no one to spend the holiday with, she would reach out to others who were in the same situation. Sister Jones had our pastor announce there was a sign up sheet in our foyer for those who needed a place for Thanksgiving. Sister Jones LOVES to serve. To feed 20-50 people and cook it all by herself is heaven for her! She is well into her 80s and never misses a beat. It is so beautiful! Mothers who have no husband but have children, widows, and widowers alike signed the sheet. Sister Jones is thrilled. Her home, where she lives all alone, will be hustling and bustling with church family and she will not only be able to give, but in her own way receive the greatest blessing of the holiday…a home filled with love!
2. See it as time for yourself! During these economic times in our lives, work can be overwhelming. How many of us long for a day just to sleep in and relax all day in our pajamas! Oh to sleep late, wake up to coffee and ball games without ever having to clean our house to pristine condition and being able to lounge all day is just the ticket!! Maybe there is a good book you have wanted to get to and have not had the time…here is your chance! Instead of the trouble of cooking a traditional feast, you may try a new recipe you saw ( I saw one for cheese dip I can’t wait to try!) or an old one that is a favorite. Doesn’t football and nachos sound yummy?? Make it YOUR day and pamper yourself. Take the quiet as being a blessing! Spend time with the Lord! He is always with you! No matter how alone we can feel, the reality is, God NEVER leaves us or forsakes us. We are never by ourselves! Make it your special day and enjoy some things you haven’t had a chance to do!
3. Volunteer to help those who are alone in your community and spend the holiday blessing them! Beat the blues by turning the tables on them! Be a blessing to others. Find a ‘soup kitchen’ or a community help center and ask what you can do. Believe me, they will welcome the help with open arms and an apron! You will find such great joy in serving others! Listen to their stories, how their lives used to be, and what happened to them that caused them to be alone or in the place they are finding themselves in now. Many times we find someone else has had it much harder than we. Encourage them, pray for them if they will let you, and spread the love of God to them. Bring dominoes or other games and set up tables of “fun” when the dinner is over! Soon you will forget you WERE alone and will have the hustle and fun bustle everyone else is having!
I hope this helps you, precious reader! I pray your holiday is full of joy and blessings however you may wish to spend it! Know you are never alone and you are loved! God bless you!! Juliana
At our house on Thanksgiving Day the first words out of my mouth to my husband as I watch him fix his breakfast is, “Don’t eat big! You know we are having a huge lunch and Momma will be hurt if you don’t stuff yourself!” And that is exactly what we all do…skip breakfast! By the time our Thanksgiving feast is ready, you would think we had not eaten in a week!
Appetizers are a must for us during the holidays. Pecans in Texas are plenteous! We use them in cookies, pies, cakes, salads and, in this case, candied appetizers! With this recipe you can pour them right up into a pretty candy dish and let your family “graze” without filling up before your meal is ready. These make great gifts, too! Wrap them in pretty baggies to keep them fresh and stuff them into a gift bag. Tie a pretty bow, and voilà! It is just an added plus this recipe is so simple, too! Enjoy!!
1 tablespoon water
1 pound pecan halves
1 cup white sugar
3/4 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
Preheat oven to 250 degrees. Grease one baking sheet. In a mixing bowl, whip together the egg white and water until frothy. In a separate bowl, mix together sugar, salt, and cinnamon. Add pecans to egg whites, stir to coat the nuts evenly. Remove the nuts, and toss them in the sugar mixture until coated. Spread the nuts out on the prepared baking sheet. Bake at 250 degrees for 1 hour. Stir every 15 minutes.